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У нас в саду есть платная спортивная секция. Они могут отказывать ребёнку, если с ним не справляется тренер? Мы ходили — очень нравилось, но пришёл новый мальчик. По виду у него, похоже, диагноз, но видно, что с ним не справляются: он ходит в обычную группу, там всё вроде нормально (или я просто не вижу иначе), а секция его выводит на сильные эмоции. На третьем занятии вся группа была не в своей тарелке: он кричал и бросался на мать, были истерики; тренер как будто не знает, что делать. Сейчас он часто выходит с занятиями не в духе: он кричит, кидается на маму, истерики повторяются, тренер как бы пытается справиться. Все дети выглядят гиперактивными; видно, что занятие больше похоже на попытку вывести его из себя, чем на радость группе. Раньше были фотоотчёты — все возвращались довольные, тренер улыбался. В общем, мне кажется, его попросят прекратить походы, или просто сейчас занятия идут во вред. Увы, сейчас так проходит занятие, и оно для него вредно.
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Mariya Glebova
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In ordinary groups, this definitely doesn't work that way. Here's the question: do they have the right to do this while doping? Parents and coaches are definitely not happy about it; we'll see how things look by the end of the month, and of course we will raise the issue.
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February 17, 2026, 12:13 PM
Ekaterina
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Somehow, in our section, they removed a boy like that from the group; the coach was the one who initiated it.
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February 17, 2026, 12:13 PM
Anastasiya
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They won't ask for it, and if they do ask, the mother will file a complaint and he will be returned. They've grown used to convenience and are quick to label everyone with a diagnosis.
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February 17, 2026, 12:13 PM
lanochka
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It's a paid service; yes, they may ask for payment.
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February 17, 2026, 12:13 PM
Nataliya
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Only if the initiative is seized by the parents, who will organize a mass complaint of the kind: 'we pay for everything, and one person gets all the attention'.
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February 17, 2026, 12:25 PM
Yana
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We have had cases like this in our aikido class. The instructor spoke with the parents to remove the child from the class. But up to that moment she had simply isolated him at the far end of the gym so as not to disturb the others.
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February 17, 2026, 12:25 PM
Mariya Glebova
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I understand that there are children like that. But deliberately taking them to a class where, instead of sports with my child, someone else’s healing is taking place—that doesn’t sound healthy, does it?
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February 17, 2026, 12:25 PM
Mariya Glebova
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lanochka She is a good coach. In the penultimate session I could tell that she was still a bit unsettled, and yesterday she left completely exhausted and in a bad mood.
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February 17, 2026, 12:25 PM
Mariya Glebova
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Yana It's good when parents stay connected, listen, and help them find activities that suit them, rather than pushing them to fit the norm so radically.
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February 17, 2026, 12:25 PM
lanochka
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lanochka Everyone is hungry, but the classes are paid, and she doesn't want to lose her commission.
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February 17, 2026, 12:25 PM
Mariya Glebova
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lanochka I don’t think this is the right case. Even here I’ve seen people want to complain to a private organization, claiming it’s discrimination. I don’t remember the exact situation. I think the reason is that the initiative should come from the parent, not from the coach, to avoid problems.
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February 17, 2026, 12:37 PM
Ekaterina
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Okay, but not at the expense of my child.
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February 17, 2026, 12:37 PM
Gul Alpyspaeva
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There was a boy in my friend's son's class, both in kindergarten and in after-school programs. The parents were writing to this mom and others as well. The mom said that if you don’t like something, you can leave on your own; I’m not going to pick you up from anywhere.
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February 17, 2026, 12:37 PM
Mariya Glebova
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Gul Alpyspaeva The child has the right.
Although I may not fully understand, the child is also suffering; he does not receive professional attention, and activities for a child with such behavior should be different—definitely not judo in kindergarten.
Therefore I am preparing; if necessary, I will have to take him to another place, not as convenient in terms of location, but I will stay calm.
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February 17, 2026, 12:49 PM
elena
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There's a boy like this in my son's class. There's no diagnosis, but he's a handful. At seven years old, crawling on the floor in class during a lesson is definitely not healthy.
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February 17, 2026, 1:25 PM
Nataliya
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Nataliya Okay, then we can just change the section)
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February 17, 2026, 1:25 PM
Mariya Glebova
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Nataliya Yeah, it's disappointing, but oh well.
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February 17, 2026, 1:37 PM
Irina
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My daughter has a couple of boys in her swimming class too. It’s not terrible, but they constantly interrupt the other kids from focusing. The coach of one of them makes him sit on the bench for about 10 minutes. The session lasts 30 minutes. So you see, on one hand it seems we paid for the lesson, but he doesn’t participate. On the other hand, it affects the others negatively. So I’m on the coach's side)
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February 17, 2026, 1:49 PM
Mariya Glebova
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elena A common story. When I was at the TPMPK commission with my own child, the specialists themselves said that many truly difficult cases aren’t taken on—they’re denied. And those who come are the ones who don’t have problems as such and simply work with them. I understand—I'm tired; this is a test. I won’t argue with anyone in such situations; I’ll leave on my own.
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February 17, 2026, 1:49 PM
Mariya Glebova
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Irina Because there should be separate, one-on-one sessions here, not group classes where the trainer's attention is geared toward the average child.
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February 17, 2026, 1:49 PM
Gul Alpyspaeva
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Gul Alpyspaeva Has.
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February 17, 2026, 4:27 PM
Olya
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How did the medical exam go?
When he was four, I enrolled my son in karate.
The medical examination was mandatory.
We didn't get to it, because my child was very energetic; at the third class the coach offered to refund the membership fee.
In the end I didn't take the money (it was frozen for next year); we decided to try again next year when he's older.
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February 17, 2026, 6:09 PM
Katerina
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Yes, they quietly kick you out.
From both paid and free options, even from therapeutic exercise, they can kick you out of sessions with a speech therapist and with a psychologist.
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February 17, 2026, 8:56 PM
Mariya Glebova
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Olya Nothing has been checked at all; this is the first time I've heard that anything serious is checked before the C-section—at most, a note from the pediatrician.
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February 17, 2026, 10:17 PM
Mariya Glebova
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Katerina So our coach is a tough fighter.
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February 17, 2026, 10:17 PM

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