Our obstetrician told us that a pregnant woman is like a crystal vase full of water. Do you think we…

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Our obstetrician told us that a pregnant woman is like a crystal vase full of water. Do you think we need to be extra careful and protect ourselves, or can we live our normal lives? After IVF, I haven't washed the floor for two weeks because I'm in "save mode." My husband refuses to do it. How long should we really be following such restrictions?
Если до беременности не успели сделать флюорографию, то её делают сразу после родов или можно во вре…
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Nadezda
Why is my husband refusing to do the dishes?
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Katya
Nadezda doesn't want to 🤷️
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Nadezda
Nadezda Wait, you can do that? My sister's husband ate off dirty dishes when she was sick. They didn't want to wash them. That seems weird to me.
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Ruzanna
Does your husband's religion prevent him from washing the floors?
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Kristina
for health reasons
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Tanya
Take care of yourself, it's a must. Especially if your pregnancy is complicated. If your husband refuses, he should pay for cleaning services.
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Anna Pavlova
Of course, you need to approach physical demands realistically. Did your doctor forbid any exertion? Did they tell you to stay in bed and not get up? Or did you impose these restrictions on yourself?
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Katya
Ruzanna 😂 How can I force him? I can't make him do anything!
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Irina
I lived a normal life. But I didn't have IVF and all three came easily enough. Perhaps if I had gone through a long process and had negative experiences behind me, I would have treated myself more carefully. I already bought a steam mop for the floor and I have no problems.
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Ruzanna
Ruzanna OMG...
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Katya
I haven't received my pregnancy status yet, I haven't had my hCG test, it's too early.
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Nadezda
Nadezda It will be hard with such a husband, but then again, you haven't known him for just a day, so he must suit you.
As for being careful, just go by how you feel.
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Natalya
Wow, what a husband!
My pregnancy was difficult, but I wasn't overly anxious.
My husband was always helpful.
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Anastasiya Kiseleva
I'm living a normal life, but I'm taking care of myself. Less heavy lifting, and if I'm tired, I rest. I clean the floors, but I have a convenient mop.
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Kristina Krasnova
This also applies to planning.
It's better to be a fragile vase.
Sorry, this is off-topic and none of my business, but your husband's behavior is strange... does he really want a baby?
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Katya
Natalya He can do a lot and cooks for himself, but in all the time I've lived with him, he's never washed the floors.
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Katya
Anastasiya Kiseleva I have a steam mop, but dust sticks to the cloth, so I have to take it off and rinse it, which means bending down.
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Natali
How come he doesn't want to wash the floors? And when the baby is born, who will help you? The baby (like you) needs cleanliness. I hope it's a joke that your husband doesn't want to wash the floors)))
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Katya
No, it's not a joke. He can do a lot around the house, but he's never washed the floors.
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yankovskaya yuliya
Anastasiya Kiseleva The Zetter mop is a lifesaver, no need to take anything off or rinse by hand!)
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