Girls, we're around 32, young and generally healthy. But deep down, we don't have that feeling that…

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Girls, we're around 32, young and generally healthy. But deep down, we don't have that feeling that you look good in any body. We probably lack body positivity, which is why we feel and look like 💩🫠. It's not about being overweight; some are bigger than me. But they still do their hair, dress up, and wear heels – they're all woman, no matter what. Maybe it's just self-hatred. A year ago, I was still 'normal,' wanting to change my hairstyle, get my lashes done, and buy clothes. Now I don't want anything, just to put on a warm sack and that's it. We've made it to the night, and that's it. Inside, there's high anxiety, tension, and sadness.
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Kristina
I'm skinny, a creature with no feminine features 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
and I want everything! Eeeeeverything. But I wear warm sacks, galoshes, and hoods
My husband is against everything normal without him, but then he doesn't go anywhere, then everything I want lies dead in the closet…
I only feel like a sad 💩 after work
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Elena
I know the stress of work, of overtime, three years without a vacation, I'm like a squeezed lemon, but I can't stop. My husband's salary isn't enough.
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Gulya
This is due to fatigue and burnout. You simply don't have the energy for femininity. You can't do it all, it's practically impossible. Or it's possible, but not for long
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Tatyana
Skinny and mean...
Look, I think
Moto-Moto has a crush on you 😉
— He's coming over!

I love big, I love curvy,
I love big and stocky.
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Marishka
Well, if you're okay with it, then everything is fine. The main thing is that it's comfortable for you. I practically live in my athletic wear and probably always will. I find and create beauty in a sporty style. Everything's great.
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Elena
and what does he look like?
No way, no way such sacrifices, we've been there
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Marina
Everything is in your hands. I don't let myself get that low. I'm always on top of things. I'm 42.
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Mariya Glebova
I don't accept myself at any weight. Accepting yourself at a certain weight and doing nothing about it isn't self-love; excess weight indicates imbalances.
I love myself in sweats and baggy clothes, and frankly, I've had it with heels and a full face of makeup. I'm a skinny grump in sweats, with groomed eyebrows, and I'm beautiful))
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Elena
Marina You're doing great! 👍
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Elena
Yeah, a typical guy) He just doesn't think some expenses are necessary, but I believe we can't do without them. I'm a bit obsessed with my kids' teeth, their mugs, sports, and art classes. All of this is costly, and I'm not willing to save on it. That's why I'm working so hard.
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Elena
Although if you compare him to the average, he's tall with a perfect body, not a gram of fat, just working muscles. In general, he's toned, but at 20 he doesn't look like he does at 40.
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Elena
Waiting for the kids to grow up 🤣
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Elena
Is it worth it to destroy yourself like this? :)
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Elena
For the kids, it's worth it, but I wouldn't exhaust myself like this for a man.
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Elena
I don't know, neglecting yourself and ruining your health like this. It's worth finding a middle ground
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