Посоветуйте, как поставить взрослую женщину на место. Мы уже несколько лет живём в квартире у моих родителей, и по приезду у нас с этой женщиной вышел небольшой конфликт (точно не помню из-за чего). Раньше в детстве мои родители хорошо с ней ладили, с её старшим сыном мы учились в одном классе. А сейчас мы даже не здороваемся. Суть в том, что когда её сын гуляет возле дома на площадке, она идёт мимо и оскорбляет его любыми словами и даже матерится — он убегает. Муж подошёл к сыну и попросил его успокоиться. В итоге всё возвращается на свои места, она успокаивается, но ненадолго. Иногда она сама пытается снова вовлечься: приходит к дому по пятницам, хочет, чтобы мы её приняли как друга, но не понимает, как это сделать. По моему мнению, она относится к моему сыну как к чужому и не понимает, что он не обязан слушать её грубость. Мы хотим найти способ корректно поставить её на место и чтобы всем стало спокойнее.
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Ruzanna
Maybe she's just crazy?
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Gracheva Irina
Oh, that's such a familiar situation.
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Tatyana Molodchinina
I still haven't figured out how to give someone a beating. Moreover, from your perspective, it seems she might have some mental health issues…
I sincerely believe that beauty will save the world… I'm talking about inner kindness and mercy, if anything. 😉
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Aynura
Ruzanna I don't rule out that, with age, somewhere her sanity might be slipping.
But if she were truly ill, she would probably insult everyone without discrimination.
Here, it's only my child she targets.
When other children are playing, she can at most lower her voice a bit, and that's all; but when she sees mine, it begins right away.
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Natalya
She seems unwell. Here, the only thing to do is explain it to her son; such people will cross his path more than once in life, and you shouldn't pay them any mind; apparently she didn't tell her son something, and that's why she's boiling with anger.
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Aynura
Gracheva Irina And somehow you managed to calm him down. Damn, we have to live here for about six months, give or take, and I just feel sorry for the child.
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Aynura
Natalya The younger son hits her sometimes. It's audible. If she's not thinking clearly, she would probably treat everyone that way—not just my son.
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Tatyana Molodchinina
Tatyana Molodchinina Well, if you have already touched her and offended her, that’s probably why she’s calling you.
The others don’t bother her, apparently.
How could it be that she was friends with your parents, yet you’ve been in her bad books from day one?
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Gracheva Irina
Gracheva Irina Well, I told my son off when he looked at her dog: 'What the heck—please look away,' 😳 and her live-in boyfriend nodded along. I told my husband about it; my husband spoke to that man... For now they seem to have quieted down... but not for long...
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Aynura
Tatyana Molodchinina My parents talked in their youth, when they were alive and we lived in this apartment. I was a child then and I talked too. But that was 20 years ago. We had a conflict involving someone else and me.
Is my child involved in this?
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Tatyana Molodchinina
Tatyana Molodchinina Even though he is yours.
I'm serious, because my mother, due to what I did to my own grandchildren, turned away from them and called them traitors.
When my head isn't right — logic is powerless.
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Aynura
Gracheva Irina Weirdos
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Natali
Audio and video evidence. Also report to the district police officer, and in the same report write about the child’s psychological state; there is a criminal code article regarding insult.
Well, she has children. Call the guardianship office and explain the situation. The checkbox will already be checked. Explain to your son that there will be plenty of such things in life. The main thing is to keep your distance.
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Gracheva Irina
Gracheva Irina Honestly… we've bought an apartment here… I don't even know what to do.
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