Natalya

Biz bu ýerde eşim bilen karar aldym, ki ikkinji çaganyň barhaýaty bar. Ilki men islemeýärdim, sebäbi…

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Biz bu ýerde eşim bilen karar aldym, ki ikkinji çaganyň barhaýaty bar. Ilki men islemeýärdim, sebäbi eşim ýanynda köp wagt ýok, ol hyzmat edýär, men hem diňe birnäçe ýyl özüm üçin ýaşap başladym. Emma soňra oýlandym, meniň 20 ýaşymyň geçip gitdi we bu işi häzirki wagtda amalaşdyrmak has gaty. Şeýle hem, meniň pikirime görä, her zat başardy, ýöne häzir 100% netije çykarmak gaty gaty, ýöne meniň içinde bir haýbat bar, meniň güýji ýeterlik däl, 4 ýyl öňki ýaly däl we ş.m. Hem-de doguşyň haýbaty hem ýatda galýar, şol wagtyň ýatyna düşýär. Şeýle hem, men gorkýaryn, ki gyzuma üns bermekden yzygiderli bolup biler... Sizde şeýle bolupdyrmy?

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Nadezda

3 çaga

Bol

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 08:42

Anna Klyuchevskaya

1 çaga

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I don't have any concerns about my ability to cope, but it keeps coming back during pregnancy (every time). But damn, everyone else copes, why can't I? Especially since I've already managed with two little ones, and here there will be only one, plus 2 more or less independent little ones. We'll get through it, it's worth it. You'll succeed too. Children grow up fast.

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 08:42

Tanya

2 çaga

Elbetde. Ikinji çaga bilen däl, üçünji bilen. Ikinji çaga toýdan öň meýilleşdirilipdi😁. Üçünji barada oýlanýardyk.

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 08:42

Tatyana K

1 çaga

bu pikirler ýatdan çykanok

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 08:42

Elena

2 çaga

ilkinji çaganyň ünsi az bolar, elbette, munsuz bolmaz. siz özüňizi bölüp bilmersiňiz. täze doglan çaganyň we 4 ýaşly çaganyň islegleri düýpgöter tapawutlanýar. ilkinji ýylda ikinji çaga has köp zerur bolarsyňyz.

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 08:42

Kseniya

Bolany hem-de häzir hem bar

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 08:45

Katrin

1 çaga

Men gorkiýan, oglum çagadan bäri 3 ýaşa çenli kynçylyklydy... örän kyn çaga bolupdy 😅 ýöne gyzym rahat doguldy we oglum iň köp kömek etdi... aýtmak mümkin, men iki çaga bilen ýeke özüm, ärim işleýär, 2 aýlap gidip bilýär... şonuň üçin diňe öz güýjüňize bil baglaň 😅 dogluş hakda bu ýowuz, meniňem şeýle bolupdy... haltany deşip, oksitosin, şol 10 sagat jahanym 😅 ýöne ilkinji gezekden tapawutlylykda nämäniň garaşýandygyny bilýärdim.

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 08:48

Antonina

1 çaga

Şeýle hem boldy. Öz gorky sanawymy, meselelerimi we çözgütlerimi düzýärdim welin, köşeşýärdim.

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 09:01

Natalya

1 çaga

bar we indi hem bar. hat-da göwün isleýän göwrelilik we men ärimi iki ýyl bäbek üçin köşeşdirdim. emma bolanda, şübheler döräp başlady - gerekmi, taýarmy, nädip - iki çagaly en bolmak we ş.m. we göwrelilikden hiç hili şatlyk we tolgunma bolmandyr we henizem ýok, alada we gorky - bar. begenç - ýok. oglum bilen bolsa, hemmesi düýpgöter başgaça bolupdy... belki, nirede boljagyňy bileniňde, hemme zady başgaça kabul edýärsiň

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28 oktýabr 2026 sagat 09:06