Меня сильно раздражает мой бывший, с которым мы прожили 12 лет. Потом он обиделся на то, что я выгнала его из своей однокомнатной квартиры, потому что он отказался включить меня в ипотеку — и это была последняя капля. В целом он альфонс-приспособленец, бытовой. Не то чтобы он не хотел помогать, наоборот — хочет договориться на своих условиях. Обсуждая расширение площади, он хотел забрать машину, которую покупали вместе; она старая, но забрал. Я не отдам документы (их можно восстановить за 500 рублей). Затем он задолжал моим родственникам, и теперь они требуют, чтобы я отдала ему всё. В общем вокруг меня настроены против меня, не знаю, что он им наговорил. Но меня все ненавидят, никто не слушает. Алименты он платит по 5 тысяч, часто. Даже на ребенка забивает: не общается с ней, не помогает, она инвалид. В общем, я одна воспитываю своих детей, хотя у них фамилии отца. Сама я сирота; родственники не на моей стороне; тещин зять оскорбляет меня; он дружит с бывшим, вместе пьют и т.д. Хоть раньше у нас были нормальные отношения со всеми, и с зятем дружили. Я стараюсь держаться, не показывать грусть и печаль, занимаюсь детьми, учусь и подрабатываю парикмахером, поэтому пенсии не хватает. Веду здоровый образ жизни. Просят, чтобы я согласилась на их условия, мне от этого очень обидно и страшно.
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Kristina
Hand over the documents and he will back off. Or do you enjoy these kinds of games that boost your own sense of importance?
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Elena
Why bother the relatives? Let them go to court and divide it.
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Viktoriya
Please stop worrying about your ex and your family.
Also take legal action to divide the car.
You have everything you need; you owe him nothing.
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Nastya15
And why do you need these documents?! I don't think the issue lies with them. File for alimony through the court; five is far too little. Who is the ex—the husband?
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Elena Vahtanina
🫂 I’m hugging you. Please take legal action against him. File for a review of alimony because he does not pay regularly. For the division of property, the old car can be included since it’s joint. Block everyone who supports him. The most important thing is you and the children.
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Ekaterina
Nastya15 They'll take him straight into the zone of operations—you know where I mean. So I'm not applying anywhere, to avoid being seen as extreme.
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Ekaterina
Elena Vahtanina Thank you. I was thinking about filing a request for a review, but then it would be sent to who-knows-where, and in that case I would be at fault. I am a kind soul, and I want it to be voluntary and from the heart.
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lyudmila Anisimova
Nastya15 What will they take it away from?
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Ekaterina
Nastya15 He didn't receive the subpoena, I don't know what his mother told them, he seems to be hiding.
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Nastya15
Nastya15 Well, firstly, we no longer have mobilization.
Second, you should decide how you want to live this life.
There are two options: live by others' orders, manipulated by his mother, father, and brother, and spend your life whining that they are to blame for how difficult your life is;
or live by your own mind, ignoring what others think, say, or do.
You have two children, one of them with him; paying alimony is his obligation; if he pays poorly, initiate court proceedings to enforce it.
The car division as well 🚘 — everything goes through the court.
Where they will take him doesn't matter; you still need to think about the children.
Don't be extreme; that childish whining won't help. Focus on your children.
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Ekaterina
Nastya15 Thanks. I'm not trying to curry favor; I just feel sorry. That's why people have turned away from me. Thanks for the kick in the pants; I should try applying for alimony again. I've already asked for 25 percent of his income. He runs a tire-fitting business as an individual entrepreneur, says he earns an average living, and 25 percent of that would be 5 thousand.
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Ekaterina
Thank you.
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Natasha Kraplina
And what does this so-called relative have to do with you? I don't understand. We should file for child support; let him pay officially.
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Nastya15
Nastya15 Whom do you pity? Your husband, who barely works? Or his relatives, who would just as well spit on you anyway?
People are wired this way: they respect only those who love themselves and look after their own interests.
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Elena Vahtanina
Elena Vahtanina Fine, let them send it. You shouldn't worry about it. He doesn't care how his child is living.
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Olya
Ekaterina Why would that be? They won't take it away.
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